Many types of lifestyles are created to fit one's desires and needs. When I was introduced to a swingers club lifestyle I became inquisitive to find out further details about it. This sort of lifestyle isn't for everyone because couples don't desire to share their partner with others. From my perspective, it seems like married couples are most involved in this lifestyle. Furthermore, I was so intrigued because I thought when a person is married sharing wasn't an option. I guess it depends on the circumstances in the union. It was oblivious that couples concurred with this sort of lifestyle collectively because it appeared to be working out in their favor. Also, several married couples participate in this lifestyle and concur that their marriage has become fulfilling for both parties involved. Many individuals in marriages are unsatisfied and connecting with others in a swingers club setting of the same or opposite sex opens the door to novice adventure in their marriage.
In fact, many individuals disagree with the aspect of becoming participants in a swinger club, and I understand their point of view. However, others beg to differ because if you never tried something how can a person be criticized. Some individuals live by a code or just have their own beliefs in retrospect to their boundaries. If you were asked to participate in a swingers club to save your marriage or relationship would you? There are many factors why couples prefer not to become swingers. One may deem that their partner may indulge in the other couples in a manner he or she doesn't indulge in their own relationship or marriage. There's that fear factor again. Also, there may be an emotional connection because some individuals may not be able to disconnect without becoming emotionally attached. We are human, and to become sexual with anyone initially is one thing but to constantly have sexual relations is something different to the point a person develops emotions for that individual. There are rules in the swinger clubs union but rules are made to be broken.
How does one approach his or her partner about becoming a participant in a swingers club? Those individuals who are swingers simply say if your partner is an open-minded individual he or she will not become offended. I deem one fear to ask their partner because It does sound like a person may be unsatisfied sexually when a question like such is addressed. Conversely, If one doesn't inquire he or she will never find out. Also, it is important to know your partner, and both parties should have a relationship so that he or she can talk about any and everything. It is vital to be comfortable in your own relationship, and marriage. Additionally, be forthcoming with what turns you, and your partner on or off sexually.
Moreover, becoming swingers is a lifestyle a couple may or may not want to explore for the rest of their life. I deem it to be a temporary fix but imagine experiencing this with your husband or wife. It will be something that couples may experience together in their marriage or relationship, and it will be an experienced couple will not forget. This was a topic I wanted to convey especially for those who are struggling in their marriage or relationship and would like to spice it up with something different.
By Kimmie Merritt
August 3, 2016
Wednesday, August 3, 2016
Saturday, July 2, 2016
BUILDING YOUR RELATIONSHIP RESUME
What age is acceptable when one is dating an older man/woman? One may think age matters, and one may think maturity and experience make the difference. I deemed experience, and maturity constructs a difference versus one’s age. One may consider oneself a veteran because he/she has experience in relationships but lacks maturity. Also, age may be a factor in why he/she lacks experience such as the age of 21 because as a person becomes older he/she learns about the experience. My question is, is it allowed for an individual to date a person who is 20 years older? Are there limitations on experiences? I don’t deem there are limitations to experience. Also, as long as one is alive he/she is going to experience life differently. If a person dates someone who is 20 years older than he/she, it is considered a learning experience. and the next chapter in their life. Yes, life experiences are considered chapters and each individual can write a chapter from every experience that transpired in their life good or bad. This is why my viewpoint is different from others when it comes to dating someone older. Reminisce on your life, and think about the different situations you’ve been involved in. How did that experience help you develop? If a person is honest with themselves he/she will view how their past experiences have shaped them to become who they are currently. Every opportunity/experience is similar to building a resume. Think about the first time you started working. How did one start building their resume to be what it is today? One builds their resume through experience in diverse jobs. Now it is understood from a different perspective when it comes to dating an older individual who has experience under his/her belt there are advantages.
Actually, in the past, I have built my own relationship resume from past experiences, and it has helped me to become a better individual and wiser from a relationship standpoint. I’ve learned and whoever came into my life learned from me, therefore both of us have built our resumes. The only way for one to become a better individual is to experience life because each individual is different, therefore; life experience is different. If one is in a relationship and isn’t being challenged he/she is lacking the ability to learn and become a better individual. We are supposed to learn from each other “Each one teaches one”. One’s focus shouldn’t be on a person's AGE but on what that person has experienced during his/her life span that will make that individual better. I don’t believe age is a factor after the age of “21” because we all do not experience life the same. We all come from different backgrounds, therefore; one experience is different and it doesn’t matter after the age of “21”. There are always going to be those who are not in agreement with my opinion but their opinion doesn’t matter. Some people seem to always live their lives for others' approval. I think one should cease living their life for others and live their lives to make themselves happy. I think it is one factor why there are so many depressed individuals currently. I deem if one lives their life pleasing to their own self it will make that individual happier. I’ve learned there aren't pleasing others but it’s pleasurable when you are pleasing in God's eyes of life growth, and development. One may not be where he/she wants to be but he/she isn’t where they used to be….Keep living life and persevering to learn regardless of the age difference because a person is building their own resume for a better quality of life.
Kimmie Merritt
7/2/16
Actually, in the past, I have built my own relationship resume from past experiences, and it has helped me to become a better individual and wiser from a relationship standpoint. I’ve learned and whoever came into my life learned from me, therefore both of us have built our resumes. The only way for one to become a better individual is to experience life because each individual is different, therefore; life experience is different. If one is in a relationship and isn’t being challenged he/she is lacking the ability to learn and become a better individual. We are supposed to learn from each other “Each one teaches one”. One’s focus shouldn’t be on a person's AGE but on what that person has experienced during his/her life span that will make that individual better. I don’t believe age is a factor after the age of “21” because we all do not experience life the same. We all come from different backgrounds, therefore; one experience is different and it doesn’t matter after the age of “21”. There are always going to be those who are not in agreement with my opinion but their opinion doesn’t matter. Some people seem to always live their lives for others' approval. I think one should cease living their life for others and live their lives to make themselves happy. I think it is one factor why there are so many depressed individuals currently. I deem if one lives their life pleasing to their own self it will make that individual happier. I’ve learned there aren't pleasing others but it’s pleasurable when you are pleasing in God's eyes of life growth, and development. One may not be where he/she wants to be but he/she isn’t where they used to be….Keep living life and persevering to learn regardless of the age difference because a person is building their own resume for a better quality of life.
Kimmie Merritt
7/2/16
Sunday, May 15, 2016
A CLEANUP WOMAN
As a child, I watched my mother nurture my siblings, and myself to be domestic individuals. My mother had a formality, every morning she would make her bed. Next, she would go to the bathroom to brush her teeth and then cook breakfast. This was a ritual, and she made sure that we followed suit. There were many characteristics my mother exhibited that I mimicked and passed on to my children because I believe it is a fundamental aspect of a child’s life. I appreciate these attributes that she exhibited when it came to keeping her house in order as a clean-up woman. Also, the weekend was the time that we would wake up in a timely fashion, and initiate chores. My mother's qualities as a mother were extraordinary there wasn’t a time when there wasn't a warm meal readily available.
In fact, when she worked late hours or 2 jobs the cleanup woman made sure she cooked sufficient food to carry over. My mother never complained about anything she simply did what she was supposed to do as a mother. Also, she never sought any handouts from anyone. She simply coped with the cards that were dealt to her and constructed our lives to be stress-free. She was a perfect mother with imperfections. I’ve learned the perfecting aspect of being a mother and was able to be the best mother to my children. I had exhibited some of the qualities that my mother displayed as a clean-up woman in my life. I knew one day my children would become parents, therefore; I wanted them to take a page out of my book in regards to parenthood. If a parent isn't able to teach their children aspects such as cooking and cleaning where are they going to develop these attributes. Every child male/female should know the basics of keeping their home clean, and not depend on someone else to do it for them.
Moreover, it is understood that some parents are misguided, therefore; their children are misguided. Is that acceptable? I believe many resources may help parents regarding parenthood. Parents should be teaching their girls, and boys the fundamentals of house chores and cooking. If parents are living in an untidy home they should be ashamed of themselves. Also, if a person is in a relationship with someone and the place is unkempt that person should rethink that relationship. A person who lives their life and thinks it is acceptable to live in disarray in their home is a person who is psychologically challenged. When a person's house isn’t in order it demonstrates a person whose life isn’t in order. If a person desires to know anything about a person when meeting them, no need to check their Facebook page. All a person has to do is go to their house. When a person's house is clean it signifies their thinking is precise and lacks confusion. Children shouldn't have to subject themselves to this kind of lifestyle. Also, children have enough to deal with going to school, and bullying, therefore; they don’t need to be stressed from home.
Some parents don’t view or attempt to comprehend what their children are struggling with daily, therefore; home ought to be placed for peace and tranquility. When parents don’t take their children's concerns into consideration it causes many dilemmas for that child in his/her life. Actually, if parents do not have their own best interest for their own life subsequently it will be impossible to have their children's best interests at heart.
A clean-up woman is a woman/parent who can juggle without complaining, and without seeking help from their children. Parents whose children know that they can depend on them to teach him or her to become independent individuals. Also, parents ought to teach their children how to become domestic individuals. In doing this their children become independent once the child becomes age-appropriate. When a child becomes a particular age such as over 21 parents shouldn't be cooking, cleaning, and washing their clothes for them. Actually, if he/she is not attending college the child should be out of their parent's home and living on their own. This is the time in life a child must leave the nest, and learn on his or her own. Also, at the age of 21 parents should have already been educated enough that their child is autonomous.
Furthermore, if there are parents who are treating their child like a baby. SHAME ON YOU! You are promoting a child to have a dependent mentality, not an independent mentality. In fact, their child will not have an opportunity to become powerful leaders in their own life. Society has enough of individuals' minds are in bondage. If parents' minds are in bondage, therefore; their child envelops similar concepts. It’s utterly sad, that parents are to blame for how their children develop certain pessimistic behaviors in life because children mirror their parents' behavior
In conclusion, if parents aren’t supporting or child toward greatness he or she may become limitless in their abilities, thus; their child is destined to become a statistic. As a clean-up woman, a child is taught the aspect of proper etiquette in the home, and outside of the home to develop structure and stability in their own life.
By Kimmie Merritt
In fact, when she worked late hours or 2 jobs the cleanup woman made sure she cooked sufficient food to carry over. My mother never complained about anything she simply did what she was supposed to do as a mother. Also, she never sought any handouts from anyone. She simply coped with the cards that were dealt to her and constructed our lives to be stress-free. She was a perfect mother with imperfections. I’ve learned the perfecting aspect of being a mother and was able to be the best mother to my children. I had exhibited some of the qualities that my mother displayed as a clean-up woman in my life. I knew one day my children would become parents, therefore; I wanted them to take a page out of my book in regards to parenthood. If a parent isn't able to teach their children aspects such as cooking and cleaning where are they going to develop these attributes. Every child male/female should know the basics of keeping their home clean, and not depend on someone else to do it for them.
Moreover, it is understood that some parents are misguided, therefore; their children are misguided. Is that acceptable? I believe many resources may help parents regarding parenthood. Parents should be teaching their girls, and boys the fundamentals of house chores and cooking. If parents are living in an untidy home they should be ashamed of themselves. Also, if a person is in a relationship with someone and the place is unkempt that person should rethink that relationship. A person who lives their life and thinks it is acceptable to live in disarray in their home is a person who is psychologically challenged. When a person's house isn’t in order it demonstrates a person whose life isn’t in order. If a person desires to know anything about a person when meeting them, no need to check their Facebook page. All a person has to do is go to their house. When a person's house is clean it signifies their thinking is precise and lacks confusion. Children shouldn't have to subject themselves to this kind of lifestyle. Also, children have enough to deal with going to school, and bullying, therefore; they don’t need to be stressed from home.
Some parents don’t view or attempt to comprehend what their children are struggling with daily, therefore; home ought to be placed for peace and tranquility. When parents don’t take their children's concerns into consideration it causes many dilemmas for that child in his/her life. Actually, if parents do not have their own best interest for their own life subsequently it will be impossible to have their children's best interests at heart.
A clean-up woman is a woman/parent who can juggle without complaining, and without seeking help from their children. Parents whose children know that they can depend on them to teach him or her to become independent individuals. Also, parents ought to teach their children how to become domestic individuals. In doing this their children become independent once the child becomes age-appropriate. When a child becomes a particular age such as over 21 parents shouldn't be cooking, cleaning, and washing their clothes for them. Actually, if he/she is not attending college the child should be out of their parent's home and living on their own. This is the time in life a child must leave the nest, and learn on his or her own. Also, at the age of 21 parents should have already been educated enough that their child is autonomous.
Furthermore, if there are parents who are treating their child like a baby. SHAME ON YOU! You are promoting a child to have a dependent mentality, not an independent mentality. In fact, their child will not have an opportunity to become powerful leaders in their own life. Society has enough of individuals' minds are in bondage. If parents' minds are in bondage, therefore; their child envelops similar concepts. It’s utterly sad, that parents are to blame for how their children develop certain pessimistic behaviors in life because children mirror their parents' behavior
In conclusion, if parents aren’t supporting or child toward greatness he or she may become limitless in their abilities, thus; their child is destined to become a statistic. As a clean-up woman, a child is taught the aspect of proper etiquette in the home, and outside of the home to develop structure and stability in their own life.
By Kimmie Merritt
May 15, 2016
Tuesday, April 12, 2016
DEPRESSION IS ON THE RISE PART II
Currently, there are millions of people struggling with depression and are unaware of how to cope with this disorder. Yes, depression is considered a psychological disorder. Millions of people walk the street with some sort of depression. Also, depression has several names but is classified as such “depression” (e.g. major depression, unipolar depression, and clinical depression to name a few). A person may convey he/she is depressed without comprehending the details of what he/she is experiencing at that point and time. Depression takes on an entire meaning by itself, for example, loss of pleasure or interest in day-to-day activities, mood declines, and it may last longer than expected depending on the individual severity. Depression is used lightly without acknowledging the changes that take place in a person’s life when he/she is struggling with this disorder. When I conveyed that depression is taken lightly, I meant that others never seek professional help to learn methods to cope. On the other hand, a person allows this disorder to consume them to the point that their life alters for the worse.
Furthermore, some people are so quick to say they are depressed in a situation, without making an attempt to cope or figure out strategies. It appears so easy to give up on oneself versus challenging oneself by bringing the best out of oneself. In life, there are going to be situations that are going to challenge the belief, religion, ethics, intelligence, and fundamentals aspects to the point of no return. However, a person has to fight the good fight of faith and persevere. What would have happened if Martin Luther King Jr, simply gave up on the challenges he came into contact with? Where would we be as a people (black/white)? Yes, in life there are going to be roadblocks and obstacles to the point that a person senses he/she doesn’t have the fight in them. A person has to believe that every situation he/she comes in contact with is just a TEST. Did you pass your test? A mind is a terrible thing to waste, therefore; when depression sets in a person isn’t in control of their thought process but he/she is allowing their thoughts to be in control of them.
Just imagine in the era of Martin Luther King Jr, if the men and women weren't robust mentality where would we be today. It is because of their mental strength mentally each of us has free will. Leaders are not born but made, and for a person to become a leader in life or in someone else life, he/she has to be durable. A person's mental capacity has to be like a time X watch such as “take a licking but keep on ticking”. When a person is in a situation, and the outcome isn’t what he/ she expected, it’s alright because a person has to look at it from the perspective of it being a learning experience. It’s considered the next chapter In a person’s life called “YOUR STORY” and guess who is the author YOU. You see how wasn’t viewed from that perspective. Every situation or circumstance a person comes into contact with is the next big chapter in his /her LIFE, and this is when a person keeps a Journal. Write down every waking moment when something has/had happened in their life, and it doesn’t matter what transpired. Write, write, write.
This is why when some people seek counsel, and when he/she are struggling with depression their therapist instructs them to keep a journal. When a person is dealing with life situations/ circumstances and keeping that ordeal bottled up inside it triggers them to become depressed because there isn’t an outlet. conversely, if that person can keep a journal of the events it alleviates via writing their thoughts down on paper. Remember, the says “take a load off” that’s exactly what transpires when a person keeps a journal. Depending on the severity of a person's depression several disorders don't require seeking a therapist. A person simply can go through the process and overcome their depression on their own with research on depression,
Kimmie Merritt
April 11, 2016
Furthermore, some people are so quick to say they are depressed in a situation, without making an attempt to cope or figure out strategies. It appears so easy to give up on oneself versus challenging oneself by bringing the best out of oneself. In life, there are going to be situations that are going to challenge the belief, religion, ethics, intelligence, and fundamentals aspects to the point of no return. However, a person has to fight the good fight of faith and persevere. What would have happened if Martin Luther King Jr, simply gave up on the challenges he came into contact with? Where would we be as a people (black/white)? Yes, in life there are going to be roadblocks and obstacles to the point that a person senses he/she doesn’t have the fight in them. A person has to believe that every situation he/she comes in contact with is just a TEST. Did you pass your test? A mind is a terrible thing to waste, therefore; when depression sets in a person isn’t in control of their thought process but he/she is allowing their thoughts to be in control of them.
Just imagine in the era of Martin Luther King Jr, if the men and women weren't robust mentality where would we be today. It is because of their mental strength mentally each of us has free will. Leaders are not born but made, and for a person to become a leader in life or in someone else life, he/she has to be durable. A person's mental capacity has to be like a time X watch such as “take a licking but keep on ticking”. When a person is in a situation, and the outcome isn’t what he/ she expected, it’s alright because a person has to look at it from the perspective of it being a learning experience. It’s considered the next chapter In a person’s life called “YOUR STORY” and guess who is the author YOU. You see how wasn’t viewed from that perspective. Every situation or circumstance a person comes into contact with is the next big chapter in his /her LIFE, and this is when a person keeps a Journal. Write down every waking moment when something has/had happened in their life, and it doesn’t matter what transpired. Write, write, write.
This is why when some people seek counsel, and when he/she are struggling with depression their therapist instructs them to keep a journal. When a person is dealing with life situations/ circumstances and keeping that ordeal bottled up inside it triggers them to become depressed because there isn’t an outlet. conversely, if that person can keep a journal of the events it alleviates via writing their thoughts down on paper. Remember, the says “take a load off” that’s exactly what transpires when a person keeps a journal. Depending on the severity of a person's depression several disorders don't require seeking a therapist. A person simply can go through the process and overcome their depression on their own with research on depression,
Kimmie Merritt
April 11, 2016
Wednesday, April 6, 2016
NUPTIALS
Every woman dreams of becoming married once in their lifetime. Why? There are several reasons behind the nuptials but the truth about after the I DO hasn’t been told. Nuptials are overrated because it is the way others perceive it. Firstly, many are unprepared for the novice life once they become married. Others believe after the marriage their life stays the same. NEWS FLASH: let the truth be told! When two people join in holy matrimony it’s not about the solo aspect but it is about two people sharing the rest of their lives together in a union. If individuals are prepared before the nuptials the marriage may last, however; because some individuals do not understand the concept of becoming married their marriage fails. There are some individuals whose customs encourage them to be married, although they are not structured to be a husband or wife. Simply, because in their customs others are proactive in their lives for him/her to marry.
Also, this is why further marriages fail. Everybody isn’t molded to be a husband or a wife because it is a process and a preparation. Some may determine becoming married isn’t for him/her but their parents insist on the marriage, and this further exemplifies why marriages fail. A person shouldn't encourage a person to marry when that person knows becoming married isn’t for him/ her. If a person truly believes marriage isn’t for him/her they ought to stand their ground. A person should never allow other individuals to make them do something they will regret in the long run. If a person doesn't stand for something that person will fall for anything. That is why a person must have their own belief system. When a person has their own belief system he /she will not be swayed because he/she will be able to stand on their beliefs.
Nuptials are beautiful if those individuals have a similar concept and reasoning for becoming married. Also, it is vital to have chemistry before a person marries because that will help them sustain throughout the marriage. When a person becomes married and allows God first, spouse second and family last their marriage is destined for greatness Also, when a person can think selfishly and think as partners or a team it makes the union satisfying for both individuals.
Furthermore, to be truly in love with your mate is a great feeling because there are many temptations, and when a person is tempted the love he/she has for their mate will surpass that temptation. When a person loves unconditionally he/she can persevere through the worst times in the marriage. There may be times when there may be worse times before a union may see better days, therefore; this is when unconditional love takes precedence to make the union stronger.
Actually, it takes two to make any marriage work. One person shouldn't be fighting to keep the marriage together, and the other is watching the marriage go in a downhill spiral. Therefore, if the other person has given up the marriage has already ended. Should a person fight a losing battle in marriage To be in a marriage unhappy, and fighting to keep the marriage together is hopeless because the person who is fighting has already lost the battle without even realizing it? That individual might as well cut his/ her losses because to be married alone is the worst feeling ever.
This is the only life because tomorrow isn’t promised, therefore; never allow anyone to control your happiness only you can control your destiny. The battle is not yours it’s the Lords.
Kimmie Merritt
April 6, 2016
Also, this is why further marriages fail. Everybody isn’t molded to be a husband or a wife because it is a process and a preparation. Some may determine becoming married isn’t for him/her but their parents insist on the marriage, and this further exemplifies why marriages fail. A person shouldn't encourage a person to marry when that person knows becoming married isn’t for him/ her. If a person truly believes marriage isn’t for him/her they ought to stand their ground. A person should never allow other individuals to make them do something they will regret in the long run. If a person doesn't stand for something that person will fall for anything. That is why a person must have their own belief system. When a person has their own belief system he /she will not be swayed because he/she will be able to stand on their beliefs.
Nuptials are beautiful if those individuals have a similar concept and reasoning for becoming married. Also, it is vital to have chemistry before a person marries because that will help them sustain throughout the marriage. When a person becomes married and allows God first, spouse second and family last their marriage is destined for greatness Also, when a person can think selfishly and think as partners or a team it makes the union satisfying for both individuals.
Furthermore, to be truly in love with your mate is a great feeling because there are many temptations, and when a person is tempted the love he/she has for their mate will surpass that temptation. When a person loves unconditionally he/she can persevere through the worst times in the marriage. There may be times when there may be worse times before a union may see better days, therefore; this is when unconditional love takes precedence to make the union stronger.
Actually, it takes two to make any marriage work. One person shouldn't be fighting to keep the marriage together, and the other is watching the marriage go in a downhill spiral. Therefore, if the other person has given up the marriage has already ended. Should a person fight a losing battle in marriage To be in a marriage unhappy, and fighting to keep the marriage together is hopeless because the person who is fighting has already lost the battle without even realizing it? That individual might as well cut his/ her losses because to be married alone is the worst feeling ever.
This is the only life because tomorrow isn’t promised, therefore; never allow anyone to control your happiness only you can control your destiny. The battle is not yours it’s the Lords.
Kimmie Merritt
April 6, 2016
Thursday, March 24, 2016
THE HAVES & THE HAVES NOT
There is some individual who was raised with morals, values, and self-respect subsequently there was an individual who was just raised without principles. What are the differences? That individual who was raised with morals, values, and self-respect is referred to as THE HAVES. Consequently, that individual who was just raised without principles is referred to as THE HAVES NOT. Why are they referred to as such because THE HAVES were educated to distinguish THE HAVES NOT when they are approached by those with their pants saggy because it senses some sort of Ignorance? Also, it displays that some guy doesn’t have the capability of presenting themselves in the company of others. This concept is extremely important to that individual who is planning to parent children. Why? When individuals have children the parents are the ones who are supposed to teach their child how to present themselves respectfully in the company of a woman. It’s the parent’s responsibility that their sons are respectfully presenting their selves versus wearing their pants sagging.
There is a disconnection when parents accept this sort of fashion trend from their sons and encourage their behavior by permitting it. Furthermore, if parents accept this kind of fashion trend then the children will never comprehend the downside such as health issues when they are up in age. When these youngsters become older they are going to have to deal with having terrible posture because of the fashion their legs are situated when their pants sag. Moreover, these youngsters will suffer from hip deterioration, also dilemmas with their lower back. Is that what you want parents for your children? In life, there are always causes and effects, and because they do not wear their pants in such a manner it is going to cause health issues long-term. Also, there is no turning back from these youngster's body disfigurement. This is why parents should be active in their son’s lives and give a damn about the damage when their sons are wearing saggy pants.
In addition, children will be children, thus; if parents do not educate them how are they supposed to learn, and teach their children. It is said that children are our future but it is unforeseen because some children aren’t educated, and some children are irresponsible and without the proper guidance. Attention: THE HAVES, become very cautious of the HAVES NOT. Do not accept anything that comes your way, and become extremely aware of what you are seeking from any guy. If THE HAVES NOT parents are not educating them about ethics, therefore; he will not be able to measure up to you-THE HAVES. Moreover, many things are acceptable for males but are unacceptable for females. This is a double standard because if something is acceptable for one it ought to be acceptable for the other. I think if individual become educated on the history of saggy pants subsequently a change may be a probability because some individual transforms to make certain things their lifestyle.
Furthermore, for changes to transpire Congress will have to get involved, therefore; forcing a change such as ticketing THE HAVES NOT that wear saggy pants in public. If it has to come to that for change so be it because this has been excessive for too long, and the damage is already done from a health standpoint. For those who have an open mind, think about the millions of hip replacements that are going to take place because of the HAVES NOT wearing saggy pants. In fact, hypothetically the price of hip replacement is 30,000 simply imagine THE HAVES NOT that wear saggy pants having this surgery performed on them. “ching, ching, let the cash register ring”. That’s a lot of surgeries, and money spent on each has not, therefore; the doctor's benefits again when hip surgery is performed. Actually, the longer it is permitted for THE HAVES NOT to wear saggy pants meaning further hospital claims and the doctors get richer at the HAVES NOT an expense. When is the time going to come when others stop being a part of the problem and be a part of the solution?
There is a disconnection when parents accept this sort of fashion trend from their sons and encourage their behavior by permitting it. Furthermore, if parents accept this kind of fashion trend then the children will never comprehend the downside such as health issues when they are up in age. When these youngsters become older they are going to have to deal with having terrible posture because of the fashion their legs are situated when their pants sag. Moreover, these youngsters will suffer from hip deterioration, also dilemmas with their lower back. Is that what you want parents for your children? In life, there are always causes and effects, and because they do not wear their pants in such a manner it is going to cause health issues long-term. Also, there is no turning back from these youngster's body disfigurement. This is why parents should be active in their son’s lives and give a damn about the damage when their sons are wearing saggy pants.
In addition, children will be children, thus; if parents do not educate them how are they supposed to learn, and teach their children. It is said that children are our future but it is unforeseen because some children aren’t educated, and some children are irresponsible and without the proper guidance. Attention: THE HAVES, become very cautious of the HAVES NOT. Do not accept anything that comes your way, and become extremely aware of what you are seeking from any guy. If THE HAVES NOT parents are not educating them about ethics, therefore; he will not be able to measure up to you-THE HAVES. Moreover, many things are acceptable for males but are unacceptable for females. This is a double standard because if something is acceptable for one it ought to be acceptable for the other. I think if individual become educated on the history of saggy pants subsequently a change may be a probability because some individual transforms to make certain things their lifestyle.
Furthermore, for changes to transpire Congress will have to get involved, therefore; forcing a change such as ticketing THE HAVES NOT that wear saggy pants in public. If it has to come to that for change so be it because this has been excessive for too long, and the damage is already done from a health standpoint. For those who have an open mind, think about the millions of hip replacements that are going to take place because of the HAVES NOT wearing saggy pants. In fact, hypothetically the price of hip replacement is 30,000 simply imagine THE HAVES NOT that wear saggy pants having this surgery performed on them. “ching, ching, let the cash register ring”. That’s a lot of surgeries, and money spent on each has not, therefore; the doctor's benefits again when hip surgery is performed. Actually, the longer it is permitted for THE HAVES NOT to wear saggy pants meaning further hospital claims and the doctors get richer at the HAVES NOT an expense. When is the time going to come when others stop being a part of the problem and be a part of the solution?
By Kimmie Merritt
March 24, 2016
Sunday, March 20, 2016
THE CHEATERS CLUB
PART 1
A person may have been in a relationship in the past, and that person may have experienced a cheating partner. Now, this person who was the victim vows not to allow another man/woman to cheat on them ever again. A person may permit themself to become involved physically but not emotionally in the next relationship. Also, a person may become connected to that individual but just to the point that a sexual relationship develops. Actually, a person may become involved with numerous persons sexually without any attachments. The other person may think simply because they have a connection with that person he/ she may be in a relationship not realizing it is only a sexual relationship. This is considered having mixed signals because one person may feel that he/she may be in a relationship with that individual without realizing it is not an exclusive relationship. After having sex with a person extensively a person may or may not become emotionally attached but this depends on the individual. This is where confusion plays a part in sexual relationships. A person should always be precise in what he/she is seeking in any relationship. If a person just desires a sexual relationship subsequent articulate it. Don’t allow a person to assume sex means he/she is in a platonic relationship because there are an individual who is having sex, and deem having sex means a person is in an exclusive/serious relationship. I think people are not sincere after it is all said and done. When a person is sexually involved with someone a clear-cut understanding needs to be addressed such as I am or am not interested in a relationship I simply desire a sex partner nothing more.
Currently, people do not inquire if dating is in the present or future they are under their own presumption. People simply assume because they are spending time collectively, and having sex he/she or dating. What happened to ask a person if he/she wants to date? This is why individuals become confused because of mixed signals. In fact, after spending time with a person he/she should inquire where he/she stands in the relationship. A person does not want to spend quality time with a person to find out later that his/her intentions are not to become more than a sex partner. This point is very important because it will determine if that person is worth the time. Time is very important and it can be taken for granted therefore, it is vital how a person spends their time and with whom. Time waits for no one! Every minute a person spends with each other is counted because a person can’t take that time back.
When a person meets for the first time it is not clear what he/she is seeking. When meeting a person for the first time it is a proposal that both individuals are on their best behavior. It is said a person's first impression is what wins a person over in determining if there is going to be a second date. Therefore, in the beginning, he/she will do and eloquent anything to be seen as the optimal candidate. In the technology arena, I deem it is significant to perform a background on people because this will give a person some sort of idea who he/she is becoming involved with because people are not forth-coming about themselves or their past. A person shouldn’t take anything at face value. A person will articulate what he/she wants a person to know about them, and it may be false information. This is what I mean by telling a person what they want to hear.
There are several reasons why a person may cheat such as there aren’t listening skills in the relationship/marriage, therefore; he/she may meet someone who fills that void and listens. Following all that listening a sexual relationship beginnings. There may have been a time in the relationship when they both listened to each other. Following many years in a relationship,/married those listening skills take a back seat and aren't as significant as they were in the beginning. This leaves room for someone else to become connected and fill in what is lacking in the marriage/relationship. Also, some people lack those attributes they had at the beginning of the relationship and aren’t attentive to their partner's needs/desires, therefore; someone else comes along and fills that void. Furthermore, couples seem to cease doing the things they used to do when they initially met in the relationship kept the fire burning and the fires have burned out. Therefore; it leaves room for someone else to fill that void that has been missing in the marriage and relationship. It takes two to keep the fire burning in the marriage/relationship, and if one isn’t doing their part that leaves room for someone. Some people are quick to cry the blues when he/she is cheated on but it is important to understand what is lacking in the marriage/relationship. Is that person doing his/her part?
Some people are so abrupt to change after he/she becomes married such as lacking independence and appearance. Therefore after he/she is married to that person it is vital to keep the appearance up. If a person does not keep themself up he/she will seek the next best-looking thing that is attracted to him/her. People should know who he/she marry because a person's past will show up and show out in the marriage/relationship because of a lack of investigation on your part. This person may have cheated on his/her exes in the past but was never forthcoming with this information. Think about it, be a detective for once in your life because it‘s your life with his person. Some people become married not knowing who they married. There is never a rationale to cheat on a person, and I think if it comes to that point it is important to express those concerns. This gives the person the opportunity to make the necessary corrections. Now, if the person's concerns fall on the death ear then measures should be taken. Also, I think before a person decides to cheat he/she should leave the relationship/marriage because simply stepping out on the person is a bad decision and sometimes there is no return. A person needs to live a happy life with whomever because a person only lives once and demise can happen in a blink of an eye.
Kimmie Merritt
March 20, 2016
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