This Is A Man World

I love my black brothers, and I do not think some sisters give them the props they deserve. I understand some brothers appear not to have it together, but other brothers appear to have it together. With that being said, brothers who have it together are handed the short end of the stick. I am a realist, and it may appear I uplift my sisters, and I do, however,; I uplift my brothers if they are deserving. 

Brothers who have knowledge of self know how to treat their sisters like the queens they are. Note: I said queen! The brothers who have knowledge of self aren't about playing games. These are grown-ass men. Also, brothers who have knowledge of self are not into the shacking up business.

They are about marrying a sister if that sister is worthy.  Yes, I said it! It's a GAME. Brothers that have knowledge of self cherish the BlackQueen. He will always respect, protect, and, correct any man that disrespects her.

Brothers who do not have knowledge of self-play games. Brothers who have knowledge of self are men who are not Into the "games people play". Some sisters know how the game is played, however; because sisters fear being alone tolerate it. 

Brothers who have knowledge of self recognize a woman who is down for her man (husband). Sister who recognizes her man has knowledge of self (husband)  is down with her man.  Sisters who recognize brothers who have knowledge of self-understand they are about their business. You see sisters don't have to ask their man to open the door for them because brothers who have knowledge of self already know that a sister walks in the door first. When a woman knows her man (husband) has knowledge of self she desires to do things for him because he is deserving of them.. When a brother has knowledge of self he makes his wife's life easier. 

Brothers who do not have knowledge of self sit back and watch their girlfriend/woman struggle. Brothers who do not have knowledge of self seek a payback. Brothers who do not have knowledge of self have multiple women and men. Brothers who do not have knowledge of self do not want to marry but do not have a problem shacking up with a sister. It's their belief sisters don't know their worth.

My black sisters, now you can differentiate. 

I want to say this is a man's world when a black man has "knowledge of self."

Peace!

Kimmie Merritt

3/13/18

LIFE

What happens after fathers are incarcerated? Young boys are left without their fathers. Some may say that example is the fathers setting for their sons by being incarcerated The mothers are left to care for the family during the father's incarceration period. 

The most challenging aspect of incarceration is making sure the sons do not follow in their father's footsteps. Programs need to be implemented to educate on the pitfalls of incarceration. Also, implementing a negative aspect of prison life such as scared straight methodology. Additionally, lay out the numbers of the statistics of fathers incarcerated.

It has become an epidemic to see how young brothers spend their entire youth and adulthood incarcerated. Where has the system failed them? The system has failed them is the government is capitalizing on this tragedy. The fathers who are incarcerated aren't able to raise their children, therefore; it becomes a revolving door. Our youth need the means to rise above because the odds are against them. There aren't sufficient resources to keep the youth rooted and grounded. 

Furthermore, the churches aren't reaching out to assist the youth to give them away out from the streets. It seems like it's every youth for themselves. The youth is supposed to be our future but that will be a myth if there isn't an intervention.

In every family, there is a father incarcerated. I am trying to wrap my head around this to find a solution to the problem. One may believe it is not their responsibility to teach someone else a child but it is our responsibility because as a nation we are in the same sinking boat. 

Although it may not be your immediate family, however; there will be a time when your grandchild may be placed in a situation and may be connected to this epidemic. We know in every generation a family member is associated with the pitfall of incarceration, therefore; I know this may be new to you but brothers need to be true to it, and not forget where they came from. We've struggled our entire lives and you are still struggling to prove who you are as a black man.

Why haven't the black brothers stepped up to the plate to find a solution for these youth who were left behind before they became their father's keeper "locked up." The system is designed that way. I CHALLENGE every black, brown, yellow brother to be a big brother to a child whose father is incarcerated and teach them knowledge of self, and educate them on how to evade the pitfall of incarceration. This will be the biggest challenge ever to save our youth from imprisonment. 

EACH ONE TEACHES ONE!

For those brothers that have a record. File article 23 "Expungement"

Peace!

Kimmie Merritt

3/12/18

A Woman World

It has been a long road for women and to be preyed upon by men or any man in a relationship is merely a long-standing dilemma. There isn't any rationale behind why that behavior is acceptable. That kind of behavior is learned. A man did not come into this world displaying that type of behavior. It's a slap in the face as a woman when I view any man preying on a woman. A man came from a woman. His mother gave birth to him and she nurtured him from the time he came out of the womb. If a man does not respect nor uplift his woman to feel a sense of security sequentially, he does not respect his own mother nor trust her ability with the decision she constructs as a woman. 

Women must ask the question. How's your relationship with your mother? Wait for his answer. If a man doesn't want to talk about his mother consequently, that woman will have a problem with him moving forward in the relationship. A man may deem it not to be an essential factor in an inquiry about his relationship with his mother NEWS FLASH: It will be a determining factor in how he treats a woman in the relationship. This is considered an important part of the relationship that he is withholding from her. It ought not to be tolerated. 

A Woman shouldn't allow a man to validate her because all her accomplishments have already validated her as an empowered woman. When a man embraces a woman's concerns, feelings, and needs first in a relationship it allows him to exhibit a sense of responsibility in the relationship, that is he has shown up a grown man and not a little boy. 

When a man preys on any woman it shows his lack of growth In his development in becoming a man.  It takes a grown man to self-reflect to understand his short-coming in what a woman's expectations are of him, and in turn, he does a 360 in the relationship and becomes the man he is supposed to be by becoming an equal partner in supporting his woman in decisions she has made for them to move forward in the relationship. If a man isn't able to meet in the middle and bring  HAPPINESS  to his home, and woman, therefore, he needs to let the door hit him where the good Lord split him. 

Additionally, the relationship is over because they both are striving without any common ground. A WOMAN is much more mature than a man, therefore it causes challenges and concerns with various perspectives in a relationship. When a woman knows what she desires for her life there isn't any compromise, however; a WOMAN challenge may be what caliber of a man she desires for herself. 

There is a difference between the two and I deem there is a query about why some woman continually deals with less than a man and that is the confusion amid what she desires for her life versus the man she desires in her life. The majority of men are like snakes. They affect a woman with their venom and suck the life out of her to the point the woman no longer focuses on herself and the plans that are in place for her own life, thus; the woman is focused on the man with what he does not bring to the table for his own life that has spilled over into her life with a lot of excuses and self-doubt. 

The woman can only blame herself for permitting the snake into her bed.

Peace!

Kimmie Merritt

3/11/18

Online Dating

Some individuals sense the desire to try something different from the norm. Others like myself stepped out from the norm that triggered my curiosity, and in doing that it prompted explorations amongst the avenues of online dating.  In this era of technology, it permits individuals options in the online dating arena, therefore; online dating is extremely popular. Several individuals have discovered love, husband, wife, friendship, etc. 

When individuals are closed-minded to the availability or they become deprived thus; he or she isn't able to explore their options.  Online dating is an opportunity that presents itself abroad, therefore it should be taken advantage of for example if a person is introverted and doesn't feel comfortable approaching a person he or she deems attractive face-to-face online dating may be a start to help build up their confidence and self-esteem. Similarly, online dating will be the best approach when becoming familiar, especially for those individuals who struggle with their self-esteem and confidence. Individuals may take it slow because there's no rush. It can take years it depends on both parties. 

Several people meet others online without seeing them in person. Also, others start a relationship without meeting that person for whatever reason online. In addition, others have fallen in love without seeing that person as well. It may be because of the distance he or she isn't able to make an appearance. There are many reasons. Don't knock it before you try it. Everyone's experience is different. 

When I used to date online I never met any psychotic men. That's why I said each experience is different. Online dating can be a great beginning starting with a friendship or it can be a person's worst experience. I do understand people like to play games online. I've watched the show catfish.

Online dating may work out for you as it worked for me or it may not but you will never know until you make an attempt. A person may meet a good friend online who is a good listener. I understand what it means to be a good listener. As an intern, I participated online as a listener on this site called 7 Cups of Tea. If you want to know further about it google it. I am always open-minded to try something novice. When a person knows what they are seeking online it strikes a personal interest.  Like I stated before he or she doesn't have to formulate it to be in an arena for online dating thus it may be an arena for a prosperous friendship.  Eventually,  some friendships may develop into something further. Who's to say and who's not to say. Only time will tell and it depends on the relationship that is built on the friendships.

Additionally, the FEAR factor continually plays a vital role In attaining an optimistic standpoint with online dating. Also, the stories that are conveyed about other experiences online may be a pessimist viewpoint.  others may attain a different experience. What one may experience others may experience differently. What may work for me may not work for someone else, therefore; that's something to take into consideration.  Merely, do not go into it with a negative viewpoint especially when it is the first experience. In the past,  I've come across several friendships that developed into long-standing relationships from dating online.

Peace!

Kimmie Merritt
3/2/18

How To Get Away With Murder 2

I've been an advocate of health for over 10 years, and I've helped many people with their health challenges in more ways than one. I think it is important to become health conscious, eat healthier, and have a dietary supplement program. If I don’t nourish my body with the minerals it needs it will not heal itself. The food chemistry has changed, therefore; I am unable to get the minerals from the four food groups such as 60 minerals, 16 vitamins, 12 amino acids, and 3 fatty acids. Also, it is the minerals that support the healing process in my body,. A lot of people are misinformed about why they are sick with a degenerative disease. In fact, lack of supplementing and lack of absorption is a factor in attaining degenerative diseases.

Some people are misinformed about why the body deteriorates. Please allow me to help shed some light. Also, others seem to deem age has a lot to do with the deterioration process but I beg to differ. Age has nothing to do with why the body is unable to heal itself or deterioration.  IT IS NOT GENETICS!" People develop degenerative diseases because people are deficient in minerals. Furthermore, what a person fuel their body with plays a vital role such as fast food, excessive consumption of alcohol, fried foods, smoking, drugs, wheat, rye, oat, and barley (gluten), Here's a scenario: think of the body akin to a tree. What happens to a tree if there aren’t any minerals in the soil?  "BINGO" The trees will not grow or the tree will become fragile and subsequently die. This is exactly what has happened to people in your family, and is currently happening

There are similar consequences the body goes through when a person does not supplement with minerals. If a person eats healthy, and supplements with minerals they will not have to worry about attaining high blood pressure, diabetes, cancer,  kidney failure, Alzheimer's, dementia, etc. If a person does not supplement they will surely attain a degenerative disease or die. If the doctors don't kill them first. (Surgeries, and medications). The body is made up of cells and all prescription drugs poison the cells. Also, the brain is 75% cholesterol, thus; if a person avoids cholesterol and consumes prescription drugs consequent Alzheimer's and dementia will be knocking at their door. LDL is not cholesterol but they are a protein that carries the cholesterol. From a biochemical viewpoint, cholesterol is a supreme anti-aging and growth-repair molecule. Cholesterol is a supreme healing substance and best friend to the body.   Conversely, kidney failure has nothing to do with the kidney. Kidney failure is a blocked artery. When there are blocked arteries that means the dirty blood isn’t traveling into the filtered units.

The government was sued because they attempted to undo the Desha Act Dietary Supplement Health and Education Act of 1994. 

The government does not want people to have easy access to vitamins, and minerals.  Imagine if people understood the reason why supplementation is vital for the body, and no longer needed medications because the supplements replaced it. Desperate times call for desperate measures, therefore; there are options when it comes to health. As people, we merely do not take advantage of the opportunities that are presented to us.  I believe some people still have a slave mentality such as they don’t want the knowledge in regards to supplements because they deem it not significant. Educating people about reversing degenerative diseases by supplementation- vitamins, minerals, and trace minerals will SAVE a family life. Medical doctors, government authorities, and pharmaceuticals are trying other alternatives to cause death upon people because death is a side effect of medications ultimately. No human being should die from a degenerative disease (diabetes, cancer, kidney failure, Alzheimer's, dementia) because they are durable.

In addition, people can help their families, and friends by stirring up the pot by educating themselves with the appropriate vitamins, and minerals.  Incorporating these vitamins and minerals into their life will help (mother, father, children, pastor, grandparents, friends, husband, and wife) live healthier and longer. We all have someone in our family who is elderly. The doctors are killing their elderly patients because they feel that their time is ending, thus; they need to make as much money as possible before their demise.  I know, the elderly do not believe taking vitamins and minerals to be significant because in their era the minerals were in the soils, therefore; consuming the food they planted had the minerals to feed their bodies. Presently, that is no longer the case.  The elderly are the ones who need to be consuming more cholesterol, not less. Again,  desperate times call for desperate measures.  It’s imperative to place the vitamins and minerals into your mother's, grandmother's, father's, and grandfather's diet to fuel their body before the doctors fabricate an ailment to make more money or kill them.  Why do we place trust in medical doctors?  We need to have more trust in our own abilities. Why not believe in yourself?

RECIPES:

Cure high blood pressure by consuming calcium with a supplement program such as 60 minerals, 16 vitamins, 12 amino acids, and 3 fatty acids. In addition, change the diet such as no fried foods, processed meat, gluten, or oils (olive oil, coconut, etc.). Medical doctors have people believing high blood pressure is genetic but it is not genetic. High blood pressure is a calcium deficiency.

Finally, it's imperative to take back your health, and comprise a nutritional protocol. I am recommending a book that will help those who are suffering from a degenerative disease. Also, when you receive this book it is going to change the lives of you and your family from a health standpoint.  Go to Amazon to order the book" Dead Doctor's Don't Lie." by Dr. Wallach

References for further reading:

https://ods.od.nih.gov/About/DSHEA_Wording.aspx

http://www.betterhealththruresearch.com/USSenateDocument.htm

Kimmie Merritt

The Hands That Rock The Cradle

I received a video on Facebook that disturbed me because I saw this young girl slapping her infant baby.  She kept slapping, slapping, and slapping her child. The baby kept screaming and crying but she continued. I would like to know what triggered this young girl to abuse her child in this manner. I was thinking maybe the child wasn't hers. The young girl could have been babysitting the infant.  A lot of theories came to mind as to the role this young girl played in this baby's life. I couldn't believe what I was seeing because I have children of my own.

As a result of viewing the video, it prompted me to write this blog because I was thinking of other infants being abused. Also, I wanted to encourage other young mothers to be aware that child abuse is an act that should be dealt with. I know firsthand being a mother that motherhood can be extremely challenging. It takes a lot of patience, and learning from your experience. Also, it may become challenging mentally, therefore; if any mother senses that it has become unbearable do not be afraid to admit it to a friend or a family member.  Also, if there’s a mother who senses the desire to harm their child, call the authorities before taking steps toward abuse. Some mother may not consider striking their child abusive, however; it is in the manner in which you execute the act.  A young mother should never feel alone because other young mothers are struggling through a similar situation and, therefore; need a safe haven for their child.

Additionally, I think there needs to be a support system for these young mothers whose backs are against the wall, or when motherhood has become overwhelming. I am unable to place myself in this young girl’s stance, and assume I know what she was struggling with in her life, however; I can disclose if she had a support system the outcomes could have been different. A support system is vital for this generation of young mothers, and if a change doesn't come it is simply going to get worse for the next generations of young mothers. The only ones who will suffer are their children. It takes a village to stop the suffering by the hands that rock the cradle. 

Child abuse is a behavior that should never be tolerated. Having children is the most precious gift that any woman can possess. Many women are unable to have children and wish to be in a position to bring a child into this universe. Furthermore, child abuse is a criminal act. Some may think jail is the appropriate punishment for a person who abuses a child.  In my opinion, I don't deem jail to be the optimal punishment for a child abuser. What is incarceration going to teach the abuser? When a person is incarcerated without getting to the underlying problem that person will become a recurring offender. Why do people do the things they do is the million dollars question?

In conclusion, I am unclear what brings a person to their breaking point, thus; abusing a child is never the answer, therefore don’t be so quick to jump to your own assumption. I am looking to initiate a support system online for young mothers, therefore; I am seeking a village to support me in this venture. Please send inquiries to queenrashiema@gmail.com if you’re interested.

Kimmie Merritt

How To Get Away With Murder

We as a people must wake up from this nightmare, and educate ourselves on our health. If we don't educate ourselves on becoming healthier who will do it for us. I am associated with a monopoly healthcare institution, and I have noticed that many individuals' demise is akin to wildfires.  As an institution, we are supposed to enlighten our members on healthcare.  What a joke! I am bewildered by how the monopoly of healthcare institutions, government authorities, and doctors are getting away with murder by killing our (children, parents, pastors, friends, etc.)

I know there is someone in your family who is struggling with some kind of ailment. The doctors continue to manage the symptoms without discovering the cause of the ailment to eliminate the disease. As a people it is acceptable for our ailments to be managed, therefore; we continue to ingest these toxic medications that cause problems for our bodies, and we continue to see the same doctor that prescribed the medication that is further causing health challenges. This is why I say we are ignorant. When the doctor diagnoses us we as a people accept him or her at their word no question asked, no second opinion. We all have family members, friends, and children, who have died at the hands of doctors. Think about what type of ailment your loved ones were suffering from. Now instead of placing him or her in the doctor's hands as a person you should have stepped up to the plate, and challenged the doctor's diagnosis to save your family members but instead, you give the doctor permission to perform surgery or murder your child, parents, sister, brother, and grandparents, etc.

You must take your health out of your doctor's hands, and place your health in your own hands because if you don't you will be visiting your sibling, and family members' graves,s or your children will be visiting your grave. The ball is in your court because you have choices, and you have control of your own health. The way you take control of your health is by attaining self-knowledge with your health challenges.

Also, a second, and third opinion is required. Furthermore, I don't care what the doctors are conveying never, and I mean never go under the knife (surgery). I don't care how dire he or she makes it appear because it is never as bad as they make it out to be.  Remember, get a second opinion I can't stress that enough. Prescriptions are not the only alternative, therefore; they open your mind to a more holistic approach. Additionally, you have to alter your eating habits to a healthier lifestyle. Of course, it will not transpire instantaneously the most significant process is getting started. 

Moreover, I choose to be a vegetarian which means I do not ingest meat but I do enjoy salmon, shrimp, and fish. I am not a vegan. Everything is a mindset, therefore; if you put your mind to it you can accomplish the goal you set forth. I understand meat is a source of protein, thus; we must eat some source of meat. To replace the meat I take vitamins, minerals, and trace minerals. I deem vitamins, and minerals vital regardless if you are a vegetarian or not because we will never be able to get all the nutrients the body needs from the food we eat. To kill two birds with one stone it is vital to supplement because if you don't you will attain a degenerative disease (ex diabetes, lupus, high cholesterol, high blood pressure, etc). That's to name a few because there are many others. Your body will thank you for feeding it what the body is craving.

If merely you educate yourself you can put the doctors, and pharmacies out of business because you wouldn't need them. If you do not have to visit a doctor then they will be out of business. Right? Doctors aren't doing anything you can't do for yourself. Think about this when a person goes to the doctor, and the doctor conveys that he or she has diabetes. You have prescribed medication and the prescription has side effects to manage your diabetes for the rest of your life. The doctor has turned you into a drug addict.  Is this legal to do to those who are dependent on the medications prescribed to them? Why are we accepting this? The reasoning is you think there is no other alternative. Also, you trust your doctor and you don't believe your doctor will scam you out of money because your insurance pays for it. Well, your doctor gets a reward for every prescription he or she prescribes to their patients

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The alternative for diabetes medication is chromium and vanadium. GNC, and Amazon, sell these supplements. I can go on, and on about alternatives.  When you are clean from the inside out the exterior will do the same because our body is designed to HEAL ITSELF.  This is to a healthier you... We can beat the system together and don't fall prey to this monopoly healthcare system. Also stop allowing the doctors to recurrently get away with murdering our friends, family, children, parents, and grandparents.

Peace!

Kimmie Merritt

10/6/17