A Woman World

It has been a long road for women and to be preyed upon by men or any man in a relationship is merely a long-standing dilemma. There isn't any rationale behind why that behavior is acceptable. That kind of behavior is learned. A man did not come into this world displaying that type of behavior. It's a slap in the face as a woman when I view any man preying on a woman. A man came from a woman. His mother gave birth to him and she nurtured him from the time he came out of the womb. If a man does not respect nor uplift his woman to feel a sense of security sequentially, he does not respect his own mother nor trust her ability with the decision she constructs as a woman. 

Women must ask the question. How's your relationship with your mother? Wait for his answer. If a man doesn't want to talk about his mother consequently, that woman will have a problem with him moving forward in the relationship. A man may deem it not to be an essential factor in an inquiry about his relationship with his mother NEWS FLASH: It will be a determining factor in how he treats a woman in the relationship. This is considered an important part of the relationship that he is withholding from her. It ought not to be tolerated. 

A Woman shouldn't allow a man to validate her because all her accomplishments have already validated her as an empowered woman. When a man embraces a woman's concerns, feelings, and needs first in a relationship it allows him to exhibit a sense of responsibility in the relationship, that is he has shown up a grown man and not a little boy. 

When a man preys on any woman it shows his lack of growth In his development in becoming a man.  It takes a grown man to self-reflect to understand his short-coming in what a woman's expectations are of him, and in turn, he does a 360 in the relationship and becomes the man he is supposed to be by becoming an equal partner in supporting his woman in decisions she has made for them to move forward in the relationship. If a man isn't able to meet in the middle and bring  HAPPINESS  to his home, and woman, therefore, he needs to let the door hit him where the good Lord split him. 

Additionally, the relationship is over because they both are striving without any common ground. A WOMAN is much more mature than a man, therefore it causes challenges and concerns with various perspectives in a relationship. When a woman knows what she desires for her life there isn't any compromise, however; a WOMAN challenge may be what caliber of a man she desires for herself. 

There is a difference between the two and I deem there is a query about why some woman continually deals with less than a man and that is the confusion amid what she desires for her life versus the man she desires in her life. The majority of men are like snakes. They affect a woman with their venom and suck the life out of her to the point the woman no longer focuses on herself and the plans that are in place for her own life, thus; the woman is focused on the man with what he does not bring to the table for his own life that has spilled over into her life with a lot of excuses and self-doubt. 

The woman can only blame herself for permitting the snake into her bed.

Peace!

Kimmie Merritt

3/11/18