The child support administration is a system that allows several parents to play chess with their children's lives. Several families are affected by the child support administration. Some parents deem it the best thing since wonder bread that is the father or mother paying support for their child/ children. Is it the only option to pay child support? Some parents may vow there aren’t any other options but I beg to differ. “SLEEPING WITH THE ENEMY “is an analogy of how some people have children with others not knowing who he/she is sleeping with. Therefore, a child is born because of their parent poor choices. Who should be held accountable for the parent’s actions? Actually, in life there are causes and effects, therefore when a parent takes another parent to court for child support, how is that parent supposed to react? The child/children never win in a case as such his / her father /mother will not be in their lives as much anymore or never. The custodial parent may deem it insignificant to have the absent parent in the child/children's life for whatever reason. However, a parent can’t determine how their child/children may feel without the absence mother/father. As a result, the parent takes it upon him/herself not to allow the father/mother a chance to see the child/children, and that should be a CRIME. In a case of abuse, molestation, rape, etc. this does not apply.
The system allows this behavior from the parent, and again the child /children suffer. Child/children need their parents in their life, PERIOD. When children/children do not have their mother/father in their life it will affect them for the rest of their life. Who cares? Again, the child/children suffer again. Moreover, indirectly parent permits their poor judgment to affect their child/ children. Child support is for parents who do not claim or acknowledge their child/children from the first day of birth. Child support is not for those parents who are willing participants in their child/children's lives up to the point that the mother and father relationship ends. Since the relationship ends the custodial parent will not allow the absent parent to support the child on his/her own free will. There is circumstance and maybe the father isn’t able to support the child at the time for example laid off a job, however; the mother wants the money sooner rather than later. This doesn’t allow the father the opportunity to contain the money in a timely fashion. This is selfish on the mother's part or vice-versa. Many parents aren’t deadbeat dads/mom However, a parent understands when things are not going in their favor the next best thing is to tap their pockets for “child support”. CHING, CHING, CHING, LET THE CASH REGISTER RING
Do parents really think about child support that is it will take the place of what a mother/father may give to their child /children? Money is provisional but the love and affection that child/children desire will never be displayed by the absent parent. Why? Some parents exhibit the behavior of narcissism, and this is their rationale and their child/children are an afterthought. Some parents need to be stopped from bashing fathers who are not deadbeats. Also, non-custodial parents need to fight back and not permit the mother/father, and the child support administration to take their dignity/pride as a man/woman away from them. Fight back means fighting in the court of law to attain custody of their child/children. That’s the only way to flip the script and fight for their child /children's rights especially when a parent wants the best for their child. Some parents are vindictive and spiteful, thus; fighting in the court of law is simply unfair to the innocent child/children. When this process begins just know it will be an extremely prolonged process. Attaining custody will not transpire overnight so be prepared for the fight of your life. It’s very sad and disturbing to take a child through a process as such but I deem it to be a parent's right to fight back. There are parents out there who do not deserve to be on CHILD SUPPORT. Also, there are parents out there who have a relationship with their child/children, and spend the appropriate time with their children; however, despite what they have done he/she is still paying child support. The child support administration is an outrage and their policies need to be revised because of the unfairness. This is an injustice on their part with the child support system. It is deemed that children experience further challenges from their parents when they consume issues with child support, and it affects them psychologically. How dare parents put a price tag (child support) versus a parent's love for their child /children.
When is the Child Support Administration going to amend its policies so parents may have a fair opportunity to share custody justly? The child support administration has governed by these policies to interfere and interrupt the family’s lives. These interruptions are beneficial for the child support system not for the child/children who are caught up in between. Children suffer enough at the hands of their parents because some parents think their way is the right way. In fact, some parents do not know everything because if they knew they would not cause this heavy burden on their child/children. They wouldn’t allow their children to be tied into the child support system. If they knew everything they wouldn’t be in bed with the enemy fighting a losing battle. Parents need to be held accountable for their children suffering from behavioral disorders. Furthermore, parents can stop wondering why their child/children are rebellious because the reason is right in front of them. TAKE A LOOK AT THE MAN/WOMAN IN THE MIRROR. The child /children are the victims at the hands of their parents.
The system allows this behavior from the parent, and again the child /children suffer. Child/children need their parents in their life, PERIOD. When children/children do not have their mother/father in their life it will affect them for the rest of their life. Who cares? Again, the child/children suffer again. Moreover, indirectly parent permits their poor judgment to affect their child/ children. Child support is for parents who do not claim or acknowledge their child/children from the first day of birth. Child support is not for those parents who are willing participants in their child/children's lives up to the point that the mother and father relationship ends. Since the relationship ends the custodial parent will not allow the absent parent to support the child on his/her own free will. There is circumstance and maybe the father isn’t able to support the child at the time for example laid off a job, however; the mother wants the money sooner rather than later. This doesn’t allow the father the opportunity to contain the money in a timely fashion. This is selfish on the mother's part or vice-versa. Many parents aren’t deadbeat dads/mom However, a parent understands when things are not going in their favor the next best thing is to tap their pockets for “child support”. CHING, CHING, CHING, LET THE CASH REGISTER RING
Do parents really think about child support that is it will take the place of what a mother/father may give to their child /children? Money is provisional but the love and affection that child/children desire will never be displayed by the absent parent. Why? Some parents exhibit the behavior of narcissism, and this is their rationale and their child/children are an afterthought. Some parents need to be stopped from bashing fathers who are not deadbeats. Also, non-custodial parents need to fight back and not permit the mother/father, and the child support administration to take their dignity/pride as a man/woman away from them. Fight back means fighting in the court of law to attain custody of their child/children. That’s the only way to flip the script and fight for their child /children's rights especially when a parent wants the best for their child. Some parents are vindictive and spiteful, thus; fighting in the court of law is simply unfair to the innocent child/children. When this process begins just know it will be an extremely prolonged process. Attaining custody will not transpire overnight so be prepared for the fight of your life. It’s very sad and disturbing to take a child through a process as such but I deem it to be a parent's right to fight back. There are parents out there who do not deserve to be on CHILD SUPPORT. Also, there are parents out there who have a relationship with their child/children, and spend the appropriate time with their children; however, despite what they have done he/she is still paying child support. The child support administration is an outrage and their policies need to be revised because of the unfairness. This is an injustice on their part with the child support system. It is deemed that children experience further challenges from their parents when they consume issues with child support, and it affects them psychologically. How dare parents put a price tag (child support) versus a parent's love for their child /children.
When is the Child Support Administration going to amend its policies so parents may have a fair opportunity to share custody justly? The child support administration has governed by these policies to interfere and interrupt the family’s lives. These interruptions are beneficial for the child support system not for the child/children who are caught up in between. Children suffer enough at the hands of their parents because some parents think their way is the right way. In fact, some parents do not know everything because if they knew they would not cause this heavy burden on their child/children. They wouldn’t allow their children to be tied into the child support system. If they knew everything they wouldn’t be in bed with the enemy fighting a losing battle. Parents need to be held accountable for their children suffering from behavioral disorders. Furthermore, parents can stop wondering why their child/children are rebellious because the reason is right in front of them. TAKE A LOOK AT THE MAN/WOMAN IN THE MIRROR. The child /children are the victims at the hands of their parents.
By Kimmie Merritt
March 8, 2016
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