Currently, many women are seeking to become married for one reason or another, thus; the pressure is on for the men to marry them. Also, some women have a time frame that they desire to be married such as before 30, 40, or 50 years of age. Some women feel their biological clock is ticking, therefore; time is of the essence. There shouldn’t be a time frame when a woman should become married because the older the wiser, and it comprises preparation. A woman shouldn’t jump into a marriage without understanding the entails of the partnership. Moreover, before a woman becomes married she has to take into consideration what is the expectation of a wife. Many women are hoping to marry, thus; playing the role of the desperate housewives, and the husband is their scapegoat. For some, honesty plays a key part in accepting the truth about one’s self because when a person isn’t honest their marriage is doomed to fail. Most people are not honest about wanting to become married. They only articulate what they feel the other person should know about them. Therefore, the husband is walking into the marriage blindfolded. A man may marry a woman under false pretense, not the truth. However, as time passes the woman transforms into a totally different person than her husband married. Any woman can get a husband because men are visual, however; how many wives can keep their husbands. The statistics are high on failed marriages, therefore; a person needs to be clear on their rationale before becoming married. A woman shouldn’t have to pressure a man to marry because if there is pressure it is obvious that the woman isn’t qualified to be his wife. A man should see a woman and know from the time spent that that woman is the one he desires to spend the rest of his life with. Desperate housewives are simply women who seek a husband instead of a husband seeking a wife. Allow me to repeat that for those who didn’t receive it. Desperate housewives are simply women who seek a husband instead of a husband seeking a wife. Read Proverbs 18:22. It’s important to possess discernment because a husband does not desire a wife who is considered Desperate.
What has the cosmos come to that some women are desperate to the point that she is seeking a man to marry. Men listen up! If there are women who are seeking you to marry them RUN FOREST GRUMP RUN. When a woman seeks a man to marry it is because she is struggling with something in her past or present life and is using the man as her scapegoat. Therefore, she deems becoming married will fill that void she has been struggling with but becoming married will never close that chapter in her life that is considered her own demons. Many marriages fail because of the false pretense concept. Some women believe it is best to conceal who they are because it is easier to be accepted. Others seem to forget that whatever is done in the dark will come to the light. When the covers come off and those lies are revealed subsequently their wife will be considered a deceiver. If a person does not have trust in their marriage, therefore; the marriage is already over depending on the circumstance.
Actually, seeking to become married isn’t for everyone just because a woman is sensitivity to becoming married doesn’t mean it is an appropriate choice. Some people jump into marriages and regret it. Marriages aren't something a person ought to jump in, subsequently, he decides it isn’t for him/her. Some people are honest with themselves and will say the marriage thing isn’t for them, but respected for being honest with themselves. Others do try to try it, and if it doesn’t work, it doesn’t work. Who goes into marriage sabotaging it before it gets started? Marriage isn’t buying a product; try the product, and if a person doesn’t like it return the product. Marriage is a commitment, partnership, and two people making a grown-up decision to be together forever through better/ worse times. It is significant to really know who a person marries beforehand. Once a person becomes married it isn’t about SELF anymore. It’s about partnership and compromise also, divorcing family and friends such as mother, father, siblings, etc…GOD FIRST, FAMILY SECOND, and CAREER THIRD. Just in that order…
What has the cosmos come to that some women are desperate to the point that she is seeking a man to marry. Men listen up! If there are women who are seeking you to marry them RUN FOREST GRUMP RUN. When a woman seeks a man to marry it is because she is struggling with something in her past or present life and is using the man as her scapegoat. Therefore, she deems becoming married will fill that void she has been struggling with but becoming married will never close that chapter in her life that is considered her own demons. Many marriages fail because of the false pretense concept. Some women believe it is best to conceal who they are because it is easier to be accepted. Others seem to forget that whatever is done in the dark will come to the light. When the covers come off and those lies are revealed subsequently their wife will be considered a deceiver. If a person does not have trust in their marriage, therefore; the marriage is already over depending on the circumstance.
Actually, seeking to become married isn’t for everyone just because a woman is sensitivity to becoming married doesn’t mean it is an appropriate choice. Some people jump into marriages and regret it. Marriages aren't something a person ought to jump in, subsequently, he decides it isn’t for him/her. Some people are honest with themselves and will say the marriage thing isn’t for them, but respected for being honest with themselves. Others do try to try it, and if it doesn’t work, it doesn’t work. Who goes into marriage sabotaging it before it gets started? Marriage isn’t buying a product; try the product, and if a person doesn’t like it return the product. Marriage is a commitment, partnership, and two people making a grown-up decision to be together forever through better/ worse times. It is significant to really know who a person marries beforehand. Once a person becomes married it isn’t about SELF anymore. It’s about partnership and compromise also, divorcing family and friends such as mother, father, siblings, etc…GOD FIRST, FAMILY SECOND, and CAREER THIRD. Just in that order…
By Kimmie Merritt
March 14, 2016
Marriage is a ministry and ordained by God. With Christ as the head of relationship it will be build on a solid foundation. God give his people the desires of their hearts. If there's no marriages we can not multiply. Its the will of God to be married if that what one want.
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